The life, when we talk about this point, we will think about all particular that become part of life, and also that influence it, such as: humans being, animals, fruits, trees, and so on, but we never think how the particular of life make interaction, relation, and connection one each other, how the human being needs the tree that has the oxygen, and how the tree needs human being who has carbon, it is just small community from science, everything needs the other, it is the point that will be topic as proof that life will be easy by relationship or friendship special for human being.
The first before friendship, let’s we think how to faith the life, when we just alone in this world without anything around us! Of course we will find something wrong on it, we can take example from the story our first prophet Adam when he was in the heaven billions centuries ago, he felt so confuse, why was he created lonely? But after Siti Hawa created By Allah, his life different than before, perhaps Adam does not feel lonely again, so it is the proof that everything needs the other.
Friendship is the relation or interaction between one person and the other person, this is special for human being, there are some old man said in the small market while drink the coffee “who have many friends, his face will be baby” after that they laugh together, it’s mean that the persons who have many friends, they will be baby, we did know baby, everyone loves baby, and also when baby want to something, for example: baby want to buy toys, directly mother will buy toys for her baby, and anything else what baby want, when baby cries, mother will make baby happy, smile, and stop from crying, same with someone who has many friends, when he feels lonely, his friends will accompany him, when he needs money, he will easy to get that money, cause his friend will lend him, when he fall to the difficult thing, he will easy to over come his problem, cause he can share his problem to the his friend how the solve of that problem, there are many positive thing that we will get from friendship. Our life will be peaceful by friendship, because we have not the enemy, and there are many people love us, so that please life by friendship, we can sign someone who has not wealth, but he always in happiness, without sadness or feel something that be load for him, why he always in happiness? The answer because he has many friends who can entertain him to be happy, so that although his friends come from poor man, happiness and peaceful will come automatically, for example we are the poor man, but we have many friends which everyday we always gathering with them, we sure that, although we do not eat, we will feel full, because of that gathering, as we have heard what did Slank (Grub band) say in his song “Makan ga’ Makan asal Ngumpul” that sentence is true, because we always gathering with our friends, we will forget on our self, whether we are sick, hungry we will forget it all. We just can to ask “how can it be?” the answer perhaps it is the magic from friendship.
By friendship we can make circle (discussion) that has good impact, but before going to the good impact, let’s we think together the process of discussion as the progress to the goodness by friendship, we can share about everything, such as: how the information around us, how the information of our lesson in the class, and how to be able to answer the question in our class (for students), so it will help in areas of knowledge, it can support our knowledge, and from this statement we can say the friendship will make us be clever.
Our prophet Muhammad SAW, ever said in his prophetic tradition “if you want to enlarge your wealth, please connect your relationship or friendship” from this statement Allah will enlarge our wealth, if we always make relationship to the other, we can realize that when we faith many relationship, we will be easy to get something that become our necessary, but we must be careful, we must choose someone that really suitable for us, in order when he become our friends, he will guide us to the valley that have many peaceful and abundance lesson for us.
As chief of PEC
From Lenteng - Sumenep
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